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What am I up to?

Posted by Ilicia on February 19, 2010

Hey, folks! Thank you for just being here and reading what I have to say. I can’t express what it feels to be heard and to help in any way that I can. I’m in school this semester and I’m taking chemistry, music appreciation, and a few other classes that are essential for my health and well-being.

I know a lot of you have experience what I have and have gone through a bout of depression and have probably handled it the way I did… with food. Food was my friend for a while and I gain a lot of weight through my grieving and trying to cope with things going on in my life. In December of last year, I got so fed up and disgusted with myself that I decided that I needed to make a change in my life and take it back. I was going into the new year feeling good and confident on the inside but it didn’t reflect what I looked like on the outside.

I’ve been in aerobic fitness, yoga, and walking since January 19th and have been officially ‘watching my weight” since January 1st. I am proud to say that I’ve lost 20 lbs and will keep on losing until I reach my goal.

I finally feel that I have control over my life and that I am making a difference everyday.

Dont let depression and sadness overtake you. Dont feel alone. Get your life back and claim victory over all. Be proactive and fight against what ails you. You’ll be surprised what will power and new purpose can do for your figure. *smile*

Love you,

Ilicia

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School….rant.

Posted by Ilicia on September 29, 2009

I was going to sleep, but I’ve changed my mind. Looking in my son’s backpack, I saw his comment sheet from school and it had a yellow smiley face with a frown on it. No comment on it, just the homework due for the next day. There’s nothing to tell me what my son did today or how he felt…nothing. And I’m pissed.

Why can’t the teachers just write what I need to know. On days that he “supposedly” does good and has a green smiley, they still write negative comments about his behavior and what he refused to do. Every little thing is documented. This is the first day I see a yellow smiley (with a frown) and it has no comment. What?

I’m going to the school tomorrow. I’m just going to pop up and see what’s going on for myself. I am so frustrated with the school system as a whole it just…sucks.

Alright, I’m through..going to bed now.

later.

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I’m fine…had to vacate.

Posted by Ilicia on September 17, 2009

Hey ya’ll. I’m fine. I had a little health scare but I’m right as rain now. My husband and I went on a trip to Vegas and had an awesome time. I know I put on a few pounds just eating in the hotel we stayed in. I loved the plane ride, although I got sick on some parts of it. It was so beautiful…the sky and the clouds were so surreal. I can’t explain it. Beautiful.

Then when we got there it was all lit up and glowing. Jumbo screens and boobs were everywhere! *LOL* It’s definitely a trip I’ll be making again in the future.

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Been gone for a minute.

Posted by Ilicia on August 31, 2009

I want to apologize to ya’ll for being gone for so long. I’ve been sick and had to get a series of tests (ultrasounds of my thyroid and brain MRI). I’m okay, but I had to check some things out. I’m back now and ready for action! I will be back on Youtube in a little while (like tomorrow or the day after). In the meantime, please look for me to post more and please leave a lot of comments for me to read. I love ya’ll. Thanks for being patient.

~Ilicia

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Slain couple’s daughter to care for 13 children

Posted by Ilicia on July 19, 2009

Florida Couple Slain

PENSACOLA, Fla. – The adult daughter of a slain Florida couple known for adopting 13 special needs children said she is planning to move into her parents’ home and raise the children as her own. Ashley Markham, 26, told the Pensacola News Journal in Sunday’s editions that she and her husband intend to care for the children, saying it was her mother’s wish.

When I read this, my heart just went out to this family. I have one child with autism, I couldn’t imagine taking care of 13 children with special needs. I marvel at this lady’s strength. This goes to show that it can be done and that we have that strength in us as well. It takes special people to step up to the plate and handle this great responsibility. Kudos to the husband for the support! Stand by your wife! I commend her and her husband and wish them all the joy, happiness, and love in the world with those kids. With prayer and help from others who love them, I’m sure they can and will make it.

 

 

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I’m all for newness…

Posted by Ilicia on July 17, 2009

Most of you know, especially if you are my buddy in the real world, that I go to school and I’m trying to get into the nursing program. I am so ready to go back to school (school starts for me this August) but I’m even more excited about my son being in Kindergarten this year, too. He’ll still be in PPCD but hey, it’s still Kindergarten.

This year, I think as far as my son goes, I will work with him on intangible things, more on feelings and emotions, abstract thought, his social skills and reading people better, and regular things that a Kinder/First Grader should be taught. That’s why it’s going to be super hard this year to come up with knew ways to teach things that neuro-typical children already grasp. I have faith in God and I have faith in my son that he will do great this year. Another goal I have is that I want, by the end of the school year, for him to be able to tell me what he did during his day at school. I think learning sequence will be a good goal to try for.

If you have an autistic child or just regular children…what are some of your goals for them this year, be it school or home?

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